This blog is so I can keep my family out of state and here updated on our life with Ray & Annmarie.
Tuesday, March 3, 2009
When it rains it pours!
Some of you might have noticed my new "stamp" on the side of my blog. If you get a chance you might want to look at the blog. Poor Jonah. The condition he has would just be horrible! (makes our illness's seem very minor) But please pray for him and his family, they have already lost one child, and to have to go through this also, they could use the prayers, I'm sure.
I hope everyone is doing good. Bye for now!
Friday, February 27, 2009
I think this is a record
Bye for now!
Thursday, February 26, 2009
I have a sick boy!
It just seems he's been sick alot lately, but if you look at his 1 year of life, he has really only been sick about 3 times, I don't know if that's good or bad. I stayed home with him today, I hope that makes him feel better. I know when I'm sick I want my mom (still at my age) so hopefully he'll be the same.
Hope everyone is good! Bye for now!
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Mom update
She sounds good, but after she "faked" feeling good, I'm not to sure. I feel she is where she needs to be right now. My sister Amy (the one that has been taking care of them) said this may be a blessing in disguise, with her in the hospital it will give my dad a break for a little while, he is under so much stress, making sure she gets her meds when she needs them and making sure he's there for her every move, plus making sure he stays healthy for her.
Thank you everybody for your thoughts and prayers! I'll update when I know more! Bye for now!
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
We need prayers!
I will post when I know something! Bye for now!
Monday, February 23, 2009
Not much of anything going on!

Then Dr B came to check him
See he's all better now!
It really does look horrible, but little people really do fine with it!Everything is going good here, we have just been hanging out and getting ready for a PARTY! It sure is coming fast, I bought a gallon of milk today and it expires the day before Ray's birthday, can you believe that?
Alvin got Ray's car seat for the truck, and Ray had lots of fun playing in the box.
Ray is starting to "stand" on his own, he still isn't walking yet, but maybe before to long he will be, and with the exception of the words "dada, mama", and other one's I really cant figure out he can say "banana", we have been giving him banana's to eat and when we give it to him we say "banana" well guess who say's it now! Even a lady at the store commented on it! I will have to try and get it on video. Hope everyone is good, bye for now!
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
I cant believe I forgot!
I hope everyone is good. Bye for now!
Monday, February 16, 2009
Hello
Monday, February 9, 2009
Mohawk
This little boy was nice enough to let Ray ride with him, Alvin paid for 2 rides, (of course he let Ray ride, what kid wouldn't when its free)
Ray didn't care for it when it went WAY up, he was ready to get off then,
Boy this place changed from when I was a kid, what happened to the band?
Looking at the train, we were going to put tokens in but people kept getting in front of us, so "Thanks everybody for letting Ray watch for free"
Then we stopped by Grandma and Grandpa's house and Ray had fun on the "Pink" thing that he will love us for when he's older, he didn't seem to care ,
Everything else is good, I talked to my mom and she GOT OUT OF THE HOUSE, she went to breakfast then she felt good enough to go to Lowe's where they got some new things for the house. I'm so happy to hear that she got out! She said her back now feels like she has a cramp in it, she is on her way, she sees her Oncologist tomorrow to see whats next!
Bye for now, and by the way I'm moving up in the computer world, I got a "Face book" account! Boy oh boy, I got a Blog and a Face book account, whats next for me?
I am really going to try hard to work a full week this week, wish me luck!
Friday, February 6, 2009
SICK!!!!
I didn't sleep well at all and went and tryed to sleep on the couch then around 2:30 I woke up and had to get sick. (I know more info than you need, but it just got worse, if you no what I mean, I will save you all from the details but it was BAAAAAAD!!!!!!!!!) I felt alittle better until about 5:00 then it happened AGAIN! It was awful, that morning I felt like I had been hit with a mac truck, my back, legs, arms, head hurt, even my fingers hurt. I called the Dr and they told me (which I already knew) they couldn't do anything for the Flu but that she (the Dr) would want to listen to my chest due to how bad I sounded. So I made an appointment for 11:00am.
I layed in bed and I wanted my mom! So I call her crying. I'm sure that I was going though nothing that she is going though but I still wanted her, There is nothing like you mom when you sick, here I am a 35 year old mom myself and I still want my mommy!!!
In the mean time Charlene calls and says that Ray is doing the same thing that I am doing. Great, I gave my child this illness that's kickin my butt and I cant take care of him!!!! I called his Dr and they told that there is one nasty bug going around and to give him Pedialyte and call them if he keeps nothing down or not peeing.
I went and saw the Dr and she gave me a nausea/cough medicine and told me to stay home until Friday and get some rest. So to make a very long story short, Ray and I were sick with the Flu/cold, and Alvin is still fighting his Chest cold. Its just been a very happy place to be.
I did go back to work today, I get tried very very fast, but now we have the weekend to recoup. Which I think we all need and its suppose to be a warmer weekend. (if the weather man is right about that) We all need to get better soon cause we are going to be having a PARTY in a little over a month (I really cant believe that) I will let you know when we get better and pray that Alvin doesn't get what we had!!!!
Update on my mom, She had her "port" put in on Monday 2-2-09 and then on Tuesday she had her Bone Infusion done to strengthen her bone's, then she has 1 more radiation on Monday, she meets with her Oncologist on Tuesday and then will probably start chemo after that. She is feeling better if she stays on top of her pain meds, if she doenst she starts to hurt again. She sounds good, she still needs help with things that require her to bend over. The ladies in her bridge club have paid to have a cleaning service come in once a month to clean her house until she is ready to do it. It's that nice!!! Thanks ladies!!!!
Alvins mom and dad had to say goodbye to another family member (one of the furry kind) see the post before this one on that! I'm so sorry mom and dad, Smoky will be missed alot!!!!
Hope everyone is well!!
Rest in peace Smoky!
Monday, February 2, 2009
Busy week
Here are a couple of pictures that I think are kinda funny, we have all been sick especially Ray, so these pictures are so out of the ordinary, we never sleep with Ray,Ray is feeling better, his nose isn't such "a mess" and I'm sooo glad cause he hates having it wiped, it got pretty "raw" this time, but I found (at wal-mart) these things called "Boogie Wipes" they are a wipe that is wet with saline and other moisturizers. They really seemed to help, he still didn't like it, but for the soreness and getting the dried boogers off it helped. I said that I might get them for us also. LOL
I hope everyone is good, be safe!
Friday, January 23, 2009
I'm Back!

Tuesday, January 13, 2009
No major news today!

Daddy and Ray at Office Depot
Looking at the snow!
Monday, January 12, 2009
Good News!
When I called today everyones spirits were so much higher, we know that there is hope and we will take any hope we can get! Please continue to pray for her, she said today that "all there prayers are working"!
Ray and I fly out on Thursday to go see them. We will be gone for a week, I'm not sure what Alvin will do without his son, but we will be home before we know it. My mom and dad really need to see Ray! Thanks again to Alvin's family for the trip, it really couldn't have come at a better time!
On a different note Ray's Dr. called today and said he wasn't allergic to anything they tested him for but that he was on the "high" end of normal. (what ever that means) So she said to continue doing what we have been.
Thanks everyone for your thoughts and prayers, they are working!!!
Saturday, January 10, 2009
Sad News!
I am so scared. I was scared the last time but this time is very different. If there is any hope in this, it is that this was caused by her Breast Cancer. Hopefully it didn't just start on its own. That will be worse. What she has is called Metastatic Bone Disease. I am so sad! I am not ready to go down this road, and them being so far away doesn't help. My mom sounds OK but I know that she is worried about herself and her family, but right now she needs to concentrate on getting better. I want her to get better but I am sad for everything she has to go through. I'm scared for my Dad, he is already heart broken and if something major happens, I don't know what he'll do! I'm sad for my sister Amy that has to see everything daily, but at the same time I'm glad my parents aren't alone.
I will try and post what we find out. So Please say a prayer for my mom and for my family, we could use them!
Wednesday, January 7, 2009
We got it!!!
Monday, January 5, 2009
Why is being a parent so hard sometimes?
Stay away bubble's! That's what it looks like but he enjoyed them!
Friday, January 2, 2009
Happy New Year!
What can I say about March, Alvin's birthday was on the 6Th, I felt bad cause I couldn't do anything for him, I had to give him a Valentines Day card cause I couldn't get to the store to buy him a birthday card! I had my BABY! I was admitted to the hospital on the 11Th for an induction then at 11:18 on the 12Th. Our 7lb 2oz baby boy came into this world.The rest of March was full of visitors and lack of sleep!
Ray started sitting up in the Bumbo seat and really started to get into TV. We had our 1st trip as a family, it was the weekend of 6-27 we went to Gatlinberg TN to surprised my Mom & Dad. This was also the weekend Ray turned from his tummy to his back for the 1st time.
Happy 4Th of July and my Birthday month. We watched fireworks over at Steve & Dawn's house. We took Ray to the park for the 1st time. Ray got his 1st tooth this month.
August
We went to the State Fair this month, Ray started eating solid foods. Grandma & Grandpa Seeks came into town.
September
Ray is 6 months this month, he started to sit up by himself this month. We had to get dressed up to go to a wedding.
Ray started dancing, and clapping, we had Ray's 1st Christmas, I had 2 surgery's and New Years Eve.
I'm sure I have forgotten somethings, it's been a crazy year, but one I will never forget! I hope everyone had a great year!